The Gentleman’s Guide to Fucking Her Mouth for Her Pleasure
Take control and make it hot
A good facefuck can be incredibly hot and arousing.
But it can also feel like you took a wrong turn on the way to foreplay town.
Because there are really two kinds of facefucking.
There’s the kind that’s all over porn. Where some guy piston-pumps his thick dick deep as far as he can into some lady’s mouth.
It’s on the rougher side. It tends to have a really aggro vibe. And there’s usually a whole lot of gagging involved.
You’ve seen it plenty of times. It’s probably what you pictured when you read the title of this post.
But that’s not the kind of facefucking I’m talking about here. Because that’s someone’s kink for sure, but it’s definitely not mine.
I don’t think it’s most women’s, either.
Because there are plenty of ladies who love to get their faces fucked - just not like that.
Like yeah, some of us really want the head of a cock punching the inside of our throats.
But most of us don’t. We just want our mouths fucked in a way that feels naughty and playful. We want to feel submissive without having our faces used like Fleshlights. We want to do something a little porny for our partners, not wonder if they forgot we’re even there.
So if you want to fuck your lady’s mouth in a way she’ll want to experience again and again, here’s how you should do it.
Don’t Hit the Dangly Thing in the Back of Her Throat
I skip way too many blowjobs in porn.
Which is too bad because I’m a big fan of watching girls give head. And I love seeing a hottie get her cute little mouth fucked.
I just don’t like seeing her wince. I don’t care for gagging sounds, either. When it looks uncomfortable, I get uncomfortable - and I skip to a part of the scene where there’s nothing between her lips.
Hitting your lady’s gag zone is the number one thing you avoid when you’re facefucking her.
If she explicitly asks you for a hard throatfuck, then go for it. Go deep and go hard. Give her as much cock as you can.
Otherwise, keep it shallow.
Pump your dick past her lips. Fuck her mouth with the head of your cock. Give her a tiny bit of shaft, but not much.
Let her feel your stiffness gliding over her tongue, but never close to her throat.
Even a bit of gagging could turn her off completely - I know it would totally ruin it for me. So don’t go any further than she does when she’s sucking you off.
Give Her a Nice, Slow Pump
You should also go pretty slow.
It doesn’t have to be a sensual facefuck or anything - not that there’s be anything wrong with that. But you’re going to lose some dick control if you go too fast.
And you need really good dick control when her mouth is involved. Thrusting a little too hard or deep into her pussy isn’t going to ruin her night. Jabbing your dick in her throat will.
So, keep a steady pace. One where you’re in total control of all your movements.
That’s what makes it appealing for her, anyway. Making her feel like you’re in charge is going to make you seem like a stud. Being reckless with your rod won’t.
Touch Her Sweetly
There’s something really fucking hot about a good contrast.
And you can create a perfect one by using your hands right.
You’re being all dominant with your cock. You’re pounding her cute little face. You’re using her mouth to get off - respectfully, of course.
So you should be really tender with your hands.
Gently hold her head in place. Stroke her cheek softly. Play with her hair - or just hold it back for her.
I know that doesn’t sound like much, but it’s going to make a big difference to her experience.
It’s going to make being used feel hot and playful instead of degrading. It’s going to make her feel like a dirty girl, but in a fun way. It’s going to make her feel like you’re really in the moment with her - not just seeing how much mouth time you can get before she asks you to stop.
Fucking her mouth is already going to turn her on. Touching her lovingly takes it to the next level.
Use Your Mouth While You’re Using Hers
You’ve got to talk dirty, too.
I mean it. That’s basically essential. One dirty talking facefuck beats ten blowjobs where you just sit there quietly.
So if you’re going to fuck her mouth, the least you can do is use yours.
Call her a good girl for taking your dick so well.
Tell her how good it feels to thrust your cock into her sweet little mouth.
Say that her face is so cute you can’t resist fucking it.
Ask her if she loves being your sweet little slut.
The specifics vary from girl to girl. Some like praise, some like a bit of a degradation, and some want it real fucking filthy. What she wants to hear is going to depend on what she’s into.
But she’s going to want to hear something. So use your words and make them nice and spicy.
Show Lots of Enthusiasm
If she’s letting you fuck her mouth, she wants to know that you’re really into it. She wants to feel how much it turns you on and makes you want her.
That’s like half the fun for her.
There’s no clit on the tip of her tongue. There’s no G-spot on her soft palate. She loves taking your cock in her mouth because it feels good for you, not for her.
It doesn’t even matter why she loves getting facefucked. She might like it because it makes her feel submissive. Maybe she loves doing something naughty for you. Or she just gets off on you taking control.
No matter what, she’s going to get extra turned on if she can actually feel all your pleasure, excitement, and appreciation.
So, make sure she can.
Take your time and show her that you’re really savoring it - tease her lips and her tongue with the tip of your cock before sliding it in.
Groan and moan while you’re pumping into her.
Put a little energy into it so there’s no way she thinks you’re just going through the motions.
You get the privilege of fucking her lovely face. So show a little passion while you do it. That’ll be a lot more fun for you - and way hotter for her.
Fuck Her Mouth Like a Gentleman
Facefucking is a couple’s activity.
That means it should be fun for both of you.
You don’t want her to feel like she’s just parting her lips for you and only you.
That’s not nearly as enjoyable as genuinely showing her a good time. And if it’s entirely one-sided, it won’t be long before she completely loses interest in having you pump past her lips.
So when you fuck her mouth, fuck it like a gentleman.
Get her nice and turned on. Make her feel like she’s your good girl. Show her how good it feels to thrust into her warm mouth. Give her the kind of dirty talk that makes her so horny she squirms.
If you can do all that and avoid her gag reflex, she’ll be glad she got on her knees for you.
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If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Living That Sex Doll Life (Jiggly Butts, Bouncy Boobs, and Well-Placed Holes) episode of my dirty and intimate podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
