6 Ways to Give Him More Pleasure When He’s Too Thick
Get him off without getting sore
I wanted to keep going, but I just couldn’t.
I hadn’t been blowing him for very long, but I already had to tap out.
And I felt kind of bad about it.
I was deeply in love with him and completely infatuated with his cock. I wanted it in me so badly - in my pussy, in my ass, and in my mouth too.
I wanted to give that dick all the pleasure I could, because it gave me more pleasure than I even knew I could have.
It was still early enough in the relationship that I really wanted to impress him. And I knew that getting on my knees and blowing him so well he forgets what time it is would do the trick.
But he knew exactly what time it was.
It was like three minutes after I started sucking him off.
Because I couldn’t go much longer than that. Not because I didn’t want to, but because my mouth was too damn small.
Or really, it’s because his dick was just too thick.
I was super excited about that at first. When I felt how tough it was to wrap my fingers all the way around his shaft, I thought I was going to have the time of my life.
Because that’s what you hear all the time when you’re young. That dick size doesn’t matter - except for the girth. You want as much girth as you can get because that’s what makes all the difference.
Ride one thick enough to really stretch you out and you won’t just see stars - you’ll discover constellations you didn’t know existed.
No one told me how challenging it would be, though.
It takes more work to make sex comfortable. You’ve got to put your ass through buttstuff bootcamp. And you learn exactly how wide you can open your mouth before it stops being comfortable.
It hasn’t been that bad for me. I can still have plenty of fun with that big dick - and all the really hot things my husband does to prep my body for it.
I’m sure it kind of sucks for him, though. Because if he had more of a Slim Jim, I’d be able to blow him longer. I might be down for a quickie now and then. And I wouldn’t have to think twice before asking him to fuck my ass.
But I love him and his dick, so I do my best to pleasure him - and pleasure it.
And over the years, I’ve figured out some things that work really well. So if you want to show your girthy guy a good time, I’ve got a few tips for you.
Get Really Sloppy
When you’re blowing a regular degular dick, you don’t really need a ton of lubrication.
The spit your mouth produces when you’re salivating over that lovely cock is probably enough.
But if it’s so beefy that you’re struggling to keep it between your lips, you’re going to need a little more help.
Because the wetter you can make the blowjob, the more comfortable it’s going to be. It’s going to help your lips glide smoothly along his dick, which means they won’t get sore as quickly.
You can do that by being sloppy and drooling on it as much as you can. Just let your spit drip and dribble all over it until it’s soaked from the head to the balls.
If you’ve got trouble producing enough saliva, you can get some Mouthwatering Spray to help you get extra messy with it. Honestly, even if you can drool enough it’s still a lot of fun to use.
Or you can give yourself a little treat and use some flavored lube. There are plenty of good ones out there, but when you’re blowing thick I’d go with the Jo Candy Shop lubes. I personally prefer the butterscotch flavor, but they’re all good, they’re all slick, and they don’t get all sticky.
Anything you can do to make it wet and slippery is going to make it easier on your mouth - and make it way more stimulating for him, too.
Get Really Good With Your Tongue and Lips
I used to take the concept of sucking a dick a bit too literally.
Like, no I didn’t actually use suction the entire time. That would’ve been way too exhausting.
But I did try to keep it in my mouth as much as I could.
I was bobbing for cock, basically.
Which is a fine way to do it, of course. It’s just that I couldn’t bob for very long at all.
So, I started playing around with my technique. I tried to find ways to use my mouth on my husband’s dick that didn’t involve keeping my jaw open all the way.
If you’re blowing someone with a whole lot of girth, you should do the same thing.
Use your tongue a lot. Lick the tip of his cock like a lollipop. Run your tongue up and down his massive shaft. Trace the sensitive ridge under the head.
Use your lips, too. Kiss his cock like you’re worshiping it. Let your wet lips glide on every side of it. Slurp and drool all over his head.
Those are all great moves. They make you look super enthusiastic, like you want to pleasure him in every single way you can imagine. They’re super playful too - you’ll feel like you’re just having fun with his cock, and that’s a great way to fool around.
But more importantly, you can use them to give your mouth a break without tapping out completely.
Give Head to His Head
One thing I love about dicks is that the most sensitive part of it is right at the top.
I mean, how convenient is that?
I’m not saying there’s no sensation in the shaft - just stroke it and you’ll see how stiff it gets.
But the head is where the real magic happens.
And that’s great news when you’re about to go face to face with a hefty one. Because getting your lips around the shaft is the part that’s really difficult.
So, leave his shaft out of it. Instead of sucking his entire cock, think of it as giving head to his head.
It’s the most sensitive part of his dick. It’s where he’ll really feel what you can do with your mouth. It’s okay to just play in the shallow end - that’s the part that really counts anyway.
And if you’re not trying to stuff your mouth with more cock than it can handle, you’ll be able to go down on him a lot longer.
Jerk Him Like a Pro
If he’s real girthy, hand stuff is your friend.
Because there’s no such thing as a dick that’s too thick for a good handjob. Your grip is fully adjustable and your palm’s never going to feel stretched out from jerking him off.
So, make handjobs a big part of your foreplay. And stroke him off so well it’s going to feel like the main event.
Use a lot of lube to make it slippery and stimulating.
Try out different techniques to see what he likes. Play with his cock like it’s your favorite toy.
If you want, you can get your mouth involved a bit. Give the head a few licks or kiss it lovingly while you’re stroking his shaft.
If you really want to make him feel special, you can treat him to the occasional cock massage.
That way, you can give him and his cock all the attention you want - without having to get sore and uncomfortable.
Give Him a Cowgirl Pussyjob
It’s more work to fuck a big cock. You’ve got to be really wet, super aroused, and then you still have to take your time.
Which sounds fine, because more foreplay and fooling around means you’ll have more fun. Plus, all the extra anticipation just makes it hotter.
But that’s not how it feels when you’re really fucking horny for it.
When you just desperately want that cock inside you, you’re going to be a little annoyed that it’s so damn girthy.
But you’ll be a lot less frustrated if you give him a pussyjob.
When you want his dick but your body’s not quite ready for it yet, climb on top of him and slide your pussy along his shaft. Just work your hips and grind his hard-on for as long as you damn well please.
It’s going to give you some incredible clit stimulation. It’s going to make his cock feel great, too. And it’s going to help you get super aroused so you can finally take his schlong without any discomfort.
Use Strokers
If your mouth taps out too quickly and your pussy can only handle so much, I highly recommend getting a good stroker or two.
They’re a great way to give him a ton of stimulation without having to put in a bunch of extra effort.
A Fleshlight is the classic option, and I get why. They’re fantastic, intensely stimulating, and stroking his cock with a realistic-looking pussy is a really hot visual.
But I find them a little awkward to use. The plastic casing is nice and easy to handle but it’s also pretty thick, which makes it a little less comfortable to hold and pump over his manhood.
The Tenga Spinners are a lot easier. They’re soft and squishy, which feels nice. They’re slim and stretchy, so you don’t have to grip anything that’s much thicker than he already is. And it twists while you stroke, so you can give him more intense sensations without having to work your wrist into it.
Any decent stroker works, though. So you can experiment and find one that you both love.
If he’s got one or two that he really likes, use them on him.
If he doesn’t own any, treat him to his first one. Lube it up, stroke his cock with it, and show him just how much pleasure he’s been missing out on.
Give That Big Dick Plenty of Love
Wanting to show your girthy guy some appreciation is great.
Wishing you could do more to pleasure him is normal, too. I’ve been there, and it sucks feeling like you can’t do all the things you want to do to that dick.
But pushing your body past its limits really isn’t worth it.
You could try to blow him as if you were a python who can dislocate her jaw. But even if you’re one tough cookie, that’s going to get old real fast. Instead of feeling proud for being such a good girl for him, you’ll start losing interest in sucking him off - and that’s not the outcome you want.
Be careful with your pussy, too. Trying to power through the discomfort is how I ended up with vaginismus - and that’s something I really don’t recommend.
And I’m sure you already know that anal loses its sparkle as soon as it’s uncomfortable.
That doesn’t mean you need to give up on giving him a great fuck or driving him wild with your mouth. It just means you have to get a bit creative so you can both actually enjoy it.
So learn a few new techniques for going down on him. Show him all the amazing things you can do with just two hands and a bottle of lube. And have a good stroker ready in case you need to call for backup.
Because fucking a big dick should be fun. And with a few good tricks up your sleeve, it will be.
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